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Gifts for Mothers Day: Family Photography Session

With Mother’s Day approaching, I’m often asked about giving photography sessions as gifts. It’s a thoughtful present that keeps on giving, providing not just an experience but lasting memories that can be displayed and cherished for generations. Whether you’re a partner looking to surprise the mother of your children, an adult child wanting to honor your mom, or even a mom who deserves to treat herself, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know about gifting a family photography session.

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May 9, 2025

Brooke Murray

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As a mother of two and a family photographer based in Sudbury, I’ve spent years capturing precious moments that families will treasure forever. There’s something truly magical about freezing time through photography—preserving the tiny details of children’s faces, the genuine smiles, and those beautiful, chaotic moments that make up family life.

With Mother’s Day approaching, I’m often asked about giving photography sessions as gifts. It’s a thoughtful present that keeps on giving, providing not just an experience but lasting memories that can be displayed and cherished for generations. Whether you’re a partner looking to surprise the mother of your children, an adult child wanting to honor your mom, or even a mom who deserves to treat herself, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know about gifting a family photography session.

Why Family Photography Makes the Perfect Mother’s Day Gift

Mother’s Day is about celebrating the incredible women who nurture, love, and care for their families. As both a mother and photographer, I can tell you firsthand that nothing compares to having beautiful photographs of your loved ones.

The Gift That Lasts a Lifetime

Unlike flowers that wilt or chocolates that are quickly consumed, photographs are forever. They become more valuable with time as children grow, families change, and memories fade. The images captured today will be treasured heirlooms tomorrow.

Mothers Are Often Missing from Family Photos

Let’s be honest—moms are usually the ones behind the camera, making sure everyone else is documented. This means they’re frequently missing from family photos. A professional session ensures mom is included in these important visual memories.

Quality Time Together

Beyond the resulting images, the session itself becomes a special experience. In our busy lives, setting aside time to be present with one another is increasingly rare. A photography session creates space for genuine connection and can be surprisingly fun!

Celebrating Her Role

There’s something deeply affirming about seeing yourself through a professional lens in the context of your family. Many mothers I’ve photographed express how seeing these images helps them recognize the beauty in their role, even on the hardest days.

What to Consider When Booking a Family Photography Session

If you’re convinced a photography session is the perfect gift (and I certainly hope you are!), here are some important considerations before booking.

Session Types and Pricing

Most photographers, myself included, offer various session types:

  • Mini Sessions: Typically 15-30 minutes, perfect for quick updates or young children with short attention spans. These often include a limited number of digital images.
  • Standard Sessions: Usually 45-60 minutes, allowing for more variety in poses, outfits, and locations. These generally include more digital images.
  • Extended Sessions: 90+ minutes, ideal for larger families, multiple generations, or those wanting an unhurried experience with maximum variety.

When comparing prices between photographers, make sure you understand what’s included—the session fee, how many digital images you’ll receive, whether prints are included, and if there are additional costs for extra photos.

Indoor vs. Outdoor Photography

Consider what type of setting would best represent your family:

  • Studio Sessions: Controlled lighting, climate, and privacy. Great for newborns, winter sessions, or when you want a clean, consistent background.
  • Outdoor Sessions: Natural light creates beautiful, authentic images. Parks, beaches, forests, and urban settings all offer unique backdrops for family memories.
  • In-Home Sessions: Documentary-style sessions capturing your family in your own environment, where you’re most comfortable and authentic.

Photographer’s Style

Before booking, take time to review potential photographers’ portfolios thoroughly. Look for consistent quality and a style that resonates with you:

  • Light and Airy: Bright, dreamy images with soft colors
  • Dark and Moody: Rich, dramatic images with deeper tones
  • True-to-Life: Vibrant, realistic colors and natural editing
  • Documentary: Candid, unposed moments telling your family’s authentic story
  • Traditional: Classic posing with everyone looking at the camera
  • Lifestyle: Guided interactions that feel natural while looking polished

My own style blends lifestyle and documentary approaches—I give gentle direction while creating space for genuine moments to unfold naturally.

How to Present the Gift of Photography

Once you’ve selected a photographer and session type, how do you actually give this gift? Here are some creative approaches:

Create a Gift Certificate Experience

Ask your photographer (like me!) for a specially designed gift certificate. Many of us have beautiful templates that can be printed or emailed. I personally include a small welcome guide with tips about what to expect, what to wear, and how to prepare.

Build an Anticipation Package

Create a “photography session kit” with items that will make the experience special:

  • The gift certificate
  • A new outfit or accessory for the session
  • A frame for the future photos
  • A handwritten note explaining why you wanted to give this gift

Include the Whole Family

For partners giving to mothers: Make sure she knows you’re fully committed to making this a positive experience. Promise to handle coordinating outfits, getting the kids ready, and being fully present during the session.

Preparing for Your Family Photography Session

Once you’ve booked your session, here’s how to make sure it goes smoothly:

Timing Is Everything

Consider these factors when scheduling:

  • Time of day: Most outdoor photographers prefer “golden hour” just before sunset for the most flattering light
  • Children’s schedules: Work around nap times and when kids are typically most cooperative
  • Seasonal considerations: Spring offers beautiful blooms, summer provides lush greenery, fall brings gorgeous colors, and winter can create magical snow scenes

What to Wear

Coordinating outfits is often the most stressful part of family photography! Here are my tried-and-true tips:

  • Start with one outfit: Choose one family member’s outfit (often mom’s) and build everyone else’s around it
  • Coordinate, don’t match: Aim for complementary colors rather than identical outfits
  • Consider your home decor: If these photos will hang on your walls, choose colors that work with your existing decor
  • Avoid large logos, busy patterns, or very bright colors: These can be distracting
  • Layer and add texture: This adds visual interest and dimension to your photos
  • Be comfortable: If you’re uncomfortable in your clothes, it will show in the photos

I provide all my clients with a detailed style guide and am always happy to review outfit choices beforehand!

Preparing Children

Help children know what to expect:

  • Talk about the session positively in advance
  • Explain that the photographer is a friend who will take some nice pictures
  • Consider small (non-messy) treats as rewards for cooperation
  • Pack favorite toys or comfort items
  • Be well-rested and well-fed before the session

During the Session

When the big day arrives, here’s what typically happens:

The First Few Minutes

I always spend time connecting with each family member, especially children. This helps everyone relax and builds trust. For little ones, I might show them my camera, let them take a practice picture, or engage them in a game.

The Flow of the Session

Most photographers, including myself, have a rhythm to their sessions:

  • We usually start with the “safe” shots—everyone together, looking at the camera
  • Then we move to family groupings (parents together, each parent with children, siblings)
  • Finally, we transition to more playful, interactive shots
  • Throughout, I’m capturing candid moments in between the posed shots

Handling Challenges

Every family session has its moments! As an experienced family photographer, I’ve seen it all:

  • Children who refuse to smile or cooperate
  • Babies who need feeding or changing
  • Weather challenges
  • Family tension

A professional photographer will take all of this in stride. Sometimes the unplanned moments make for the most genuine, heartfelt images.

After the Session

Once your session is complete, the journey isn’t over. Here’s what happens next:

The Editing Process

Professional photographers spend considerable time editing your images:

  • Selecting the best shots from hundreds taken
  • Color correction and tone adjustment
  • Removing temporary blemishes
  • Creating a consistent look across your gallery

This typically takes 2-3 weeks, though turnaround times vary by photographer.

Receiving Your Images

Most photographers deliver images in one or more of these ways:

  • Online gallery for viewing and downloading
  • USB drive with high-resolution files
  • Mobile app for easy sharing
  • In-person reveal session where you select your favorites

Bringing Your Images to Life

Digital files are wonderful, but photographs truly come alive when printed:

  • Wall art: Canvas, framed prints, or photo walls make everyday statements
  • Albums: Tell the complete story of your session
  • Print sets: Perfect for gifting to grandparents or keeping in memory boxes
  • Holiday cards: Many families use their images for annual greetings
  • Custom gifts: From calendars to ornaments to photo books

As your photographer, I can help guide you through these options and recommend the best choices for your home and style.

Why Investing in Professional Photography Matters

In an age of smartphones and selfies, you might wonder why professional photography is worth the investment. Here’s what makes it special:

Technical Expertise

Professional photographers bring:

  • Understanding of light, composition, and timing
  • Technical knowledge of camera equipment
  • Professional editing software and skills
  • Experience handling various family dynamics

The Value of an Outside Perspective

As a family photographer, I see the beauty in your relationships that you might miss in everyday life. I’m watching for those split-second glances between partners, the way a child’s eyes light up when they laugh, or the tender way parents hold their children.

Creating an Experience

A good photography session isn’t just about taking pictures—it’s about creating an experience where families connect and make memories together. The laughter, snuggles, and playful moments during our time together often become cherished memories themselves.

Booking Your Mother’s Day Photography Gift

If you’re ready to give the gift of photography this Mother’s Day, here’s how to make it happen:

  • Reach out early: Good photographers book up quickly, especially for spring dates around Mother’s Day
  • Ask questions: Don’t hesitate to ask about anything covered in this guide
  • Be clear about your expectations: Share what you’re hoping to capture
  • Consider your budget: Remember that photography is both an experience and an heirloom investment

A Personal Note from Me

As both a mother and photographer, I know firsthand how quickly time passes. My own children seem to change before my eyes, and I treasure the professional photos we’ve had taken over the years.

Photography is more than my profession—it’s my passion. I believe that every family deserves beautiful images that capture their unique connections and personalities. The greatest compliment I receive is when families tell me I’ve helped them see themselves through new eyes—recognizing the beauty in their everyday love.

This Mother’s Day, consider giving the gift that will only increase in value with time. Years from now, when children have grown and family dynamics have shifted, these photographs will remain—a testament to the love that binds you together and the mother who made it all possible.

I hope this guide helps you confidently choose and gift a photography session. If you have any questions or want to discuss booking a session, I’m always here to help make this gift perfect for the special mother in your life.

Happy Mother’s Day from my family to yours!

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