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While traditional portrait sessions certainly have their place, I’ve found that some of the most emotionally resonant imagery happens when the setting is just as natural and comfortable as the couple themselves. That’s why I’m such a passionate advocate for in-home lifestyle sessions.

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April 29, 2024

Brooke Murray

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As a wedding photographer, I’m permanently chasing those unposed moments that reveal the true essence of a couple’s bond. The joyful glances, tender embraces, and uninhibited laughter that can only arise when two people are fully attuned to each other and utterly at ease.

While traditional portrait sessions certainly have their place, I’ve found that some of the most emotionally resonant imagery happens when the setting is just as natural and comfortable as the couple themselves. That’s why I’m such a passionate advocate for in-home lifestyle sessions.

An Intimate Look at Your Life Together

What exactly is an in-home lifestyle session? Rather than convening at a predetermined “photogenic” outdoor location for posed portraiture, we spend intentional time together in the comfort and familiarity of your own home. For an hour or two, I simply follow you around, documenting all the mundane yet meaningful moments that make up a day in your life as a couple.

You might kitchen dance while making breakfast, indulge in a lazy morning of bingeing Netflix shows, or dig into your favorite hobbies side-by-side. The goal is to capture you in your most natural state – no directions, no forced posing or prompts. Just awake presence to who you are together.

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The Authenticity You Deserve

So why choose this route over the standard posed portrait session? For me, it all comes down to emotional authenticity – eliciting images that don’t just skim the surface, but truly reveal the multi-layered dimensions of your unique partnership.

The Case for Unbridled Comfort

One of the biggest advantages of the in-home session is the level of comfort and relaxation it provides. As humans, we’re naturally inclined to release our guards and open ourselves up in the familiarity of our own spaces. It’s where we can loosen our posture, ditch our “camera-ready” smiles, and simply be ourselves without restraint.

By harnessing the intimacy of your everyday environment, my goal is to craft imagery that represents your truest selves. No complex creative prompts needed – just awake presence to the genuine interactions and gestures already unfolding. The result is a visual narrative imbued with warmth, vulnerability, and profound honesty.

Storytelling Through Meaningful Details

Of course, the beauty of the in-home session extends far beyond just your level of comfort. Your living spaces are like a physical manifestation of your unique histories, personalities, and emotional experiences together. Those framed photos, muddled bookshelves, and scattered belongings don’t just become decorative props, but rather meaningful details that add resonant storytelling layers.

Years down the road, these artifacts will serve as portals – transporting you back to the specific moments, memories, and emotional landscapes captured in your in-home imagery. Every glance will open a floodgate to the familiar aromas, sounds, and sensations of this precise time in your lives together.

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Get Cozy in Your Comfiest Attire

Another refreshing aspect of the intimate in-home session? We can finally ditch the stiff formalwear and doll ourselves up in the sorts of inviting, lived-in outfits we actually spend the bulk of our lives cozied up in.

For many couples, this means plush robes, slouchy sweaters, beloved flannels, or even PJs if the moment calls for it! No need to lament over cumbersome accessories or constrictive attire – just get decadently comfortable and prepare to have your realness documented in all its glory.

Of course, if you do want to incorporate a dressier look for a portion of our time, I’m always game. But at least some of your wardrobe will be able to skew toward those soft, flowy, utterly “you” pieces that just invite warmth and snuggling.

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Loved Ones Welcome

For those of you with little ones or beloved fur babies, the in-home session provides a wonderful chance to organically incorporate them for family-centric moments. Kids can pile onto the bed with you for weekend-morning awakenings. Puppers can excitedly greet you at the door like the heroes they are. I’m happy to gently blend into your naturally-unfolding routines to capture the added dimensionality your loved ones bring.

Celebrating Your Story

At its core, the in-home lifestyle session is about visually preserving your unique relationship and everyday partnership in an authentic, unvarnished way. Not just where you pause to pose for static portraits, but the little moments and interactions in between that mean the most.

It could be an engagement session, marking the start of your commitment before the wedding whirlwind begins. Or perhaps an anniversary celebration, taking time to document just how far your bond has blossomed and deepened over the years. Heck, it could even be if you just woke up one day craving some personal heirloom-quality imagery – no specific occasion needed other than the desire to immortalize your lives at this specific juncture.

Whatever the prompt, the end result is the same – a heart-wrenchingly resonant gallery that acts as a vibrant tapestry, preserving the feelings, energies and experiences that make your unique love story so special.

The Case for Authenticity

At the end of the day, my ethos as an photographer is simple: to capture imagery that feels achingly real, intimate, and true to each couple’s individual energies and experiences. For me, this philosophy finds its purest expression in the in-home lifestyle session.

Sure, outdoor portraits in scenic locations will forever have their own magic. And I still very much offer (and love!) those traditional opportunities. But there’s something remarkably grounding and connective about visually preserving you not just in those momentary pauses of portraiture, but in the unfolding rhythms of your ordinary life together.

To have the chance to document you in the most familiar and liberated setting imaginable – your own sanctuary and nest. To weave in all the quirky memorabilia, daily routines, and resonant personal details that make your partnership distinctly yours. And ultimately, to create unposed imagery overflowing with warmth, vulnerability, and profound authenticity.

That’s the power of the in-home lifestyle session. It invites you to release all notions of performative posing and manufactured love. To revel in the messiness and flaws.To open up and present your truest selves to the camera and, in turn, to one another. That stripped-down honesty is the greatest gift I could ever hope to capture for you.

So if you’re looking to craft visual heirlooms that celebrate the reality of your everyday partnership in all its gloriously imperfect beauty, I’d be honored to join you in the intimate setting of your own home. Reach out anytime to start planning an experience that will surely take your breath away in the most heartfelt of ways.

Interested in booking your own in-home session? Reach out to me and let’s plan an unforgettable experience!

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